My uncle Henry passed away Friday. It was sudden. He was going to take a shower and collapsed. He never made it to the hospital.
Henry Lee was my uncle and mentor. There were many men that influenced me in my life, but Henry Lee was at the top. Uncle Henry was a large man but was never an intimidating man.
He was also accepting of the differences in people. He didn’t see differences as something to fear. He saw them as things to understand. People would wonder how he could see people they though of as "offensive" in a good light. His answer was simple – you didn’t look hard enough. There are members of our family (I know we’re not special in this regard) that
have always had the single ability and notoriety of being able to rile the other family members at gatherings. So much so, that many family members wouldn’t allow them to come to their homes. You never saw that at Uncle
Henry’s. If you were family, you were always welcome.
Many arguments would ensue about having certain people over. Uncle Henry never cared and would remind you, you too were a welcome guest in his home as well.
He loved life and could always make me laugh. I remember people would
say he laughed like a "rich man." In many ways he was very rich. He
had the love of his family to take care of him.
He believed in family, more so than his brother-in-law; my father. Through thick or thin, up and down he and my Aunt Cherry were always able to
pull through.
He taught me that no matter what, family was family and as part of the family acceptance is the norm.
When he would talk to you about something that concerned him, you never had to worry about him being judgmental. He was accepting of who and what you are.
He was a genuine a man as you’d ever meet.
I only hope that when the day is done, I can be half the man he was.
I will miss you so much Uncle Henry. Especially where your stories of where “cool breezes” comes from!
God…if it’s a choice between Uncle Henry and myself for entrance into the Kingdom of Heaven — he’s the worthy choice.
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